Hanky Code 8 Colors

The Hanky Code: A Guide to Color and Communication

The Hanky Code is a discreet, color-coded system widely used within the gay and BDSM communities to signal an individual’s sexual interests and preferences. By wearing specific colored handkerchiefs, or "hankies," individuals can communicate their kinks and roles to those in the know.

Wearing a hanky on the left side signifies a top (active) role.
Wearing a hanky on the right side denotes a bottom (passive) role.
Originally popularized in the 1970s in the United States, especially in gay nightlife, the Hanky Code allowed people to subtly display their sexual preferences during social events.

Color Meanings in the Hanky Code

    Black: Interest in heavy S&M or leather play.
    White: Preference for masturbation.
    Yellow: Interest in watersports (urine play).
    Red: Desire for fisting.
    Grey: Preference for bondage.
    Navy Blue: Interest in anal sex.
    Orange: Open to "anything goes."
    Light Pink: Preference for dildo play.

By embracing and utilizing the Hanky Code, individuals can approach social and sexual interactions with greater clarity, confidence, and mutual understanding within their communities.